Posted by Vee on June 12, 2002 at 16:12:59:
In Reply to: widow at 28 posted by Brandy Croteau on June 10, 2002 at 00:27:16:
I am so sorry about your lost. I feel your pain. I am 33 year old widow with a 16 month old son. It's been almost 10 month old since I lost my beautiful husband. I still can't believe it and feel like I am living someone else life.
I know that you are feeling angry and you have the right too right now. But you have to trust and put your life in God's hands. Read Psalm 68:5. He will take care of you and your children.
I went to a young widows support group and now I am in a single mother group in the church. It comforting to be around people that understand what you are going thru. Try to find help in your area. It will help.
It's going to be a long and hard journey. It's not going to be easy. Once you think you can handle the situation and then you have a set back. You just have to pray for better days.
You probably think you are not going to make it but you will.
Try to contrete on the blessings that you do have. Look into your children eyes and thank God for them. They will be your strength in all of this. Thru them, your husband memory and spirit will be alive.
If you need to talk, please don't hestitate to email me. I know what you are going thru and it helps to take to someone that knows.
You are in my prayers tonight.
Vee!