Posted by sandy on October 22, 2001 at 06:43:01:
In Reply to: feeling very lonley posted by elaine reed on October 21, 2001 at 20:27:33:
I know how you feel Elaine! I'm 26 an it's been almost 15 months since I lost my husband. WE were together four years, but only married for three months. People think because I didn;'t have the years of marriage, I should get right back out there like he was never in my life, like he couldn't mean that much to me becasue we didn't have the time. I throw it right back in their face, "what would you do, if your life life disappeared and someone told you to move on?" Take your time, it's not a race to start over. Sometimes we just need to stand still and let the world move around us for a while, just to get our bearings and find ourselves again.
I've been standing still for fifteen months, and I'm not ready to move yet. If you need to talk, vent, whatever, please feel free to email me.
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