Posted by Vee on June 12, 2002 at 15:57:31:
In Reply to: widow at 28 posted by Brandy Croteau on June 10, 2002 at 00:27:16:
I am soo sorry about your lost. I understand your pain too well. I am a 33 year old widow with a 16 months old son. It's been 10 months for me and I don't know how I made it this far. Everyday is a struggle and you have to take one day at a time. You have to put your trust and your life in God's hands.
I know that right now the pain is so strong and you are probably angry. And it's okay, you are not going crazy. Somehow you are going to make it. You might not see it but you will.
I went to a young widows support group and I am in a single's mother's group in the church. It helps to be around people that understands what you are going thru. Try to find help in your area. It will help so much.
You are going to have some bad moments and days. When you think you can handle all of this and then something just hits you from nowhere. Just go with the emotions and pray for better days. and they will come. I am trying to be real with you because I know what you are feeling.It's not an easy journey.
This Friday is my husband's birthday. He would of been 38 years old. and then Sunday, is Father's day. I just pray that I will make it.
If you need to talk, don't hesitate to email me. My advise is pray and take it one day at a time. Love your beautiful children, they are apart of your husband and his memory and spirit will be alive though them.
You are in my thoughts and prayers.
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