Posted by CHERYL on December 24, 2001 at 17:59:11:
In Reply to: too soon for relationship? posted by Cindy on August 30, 2001 at 16:27:28:
I have the same question. I am 28 years old my husband was killed in a shooting on Oct. 21, 2001. I am 6 months pregnant with 3 other children at home(ages 2, 9, and 12). My husband and I had separated in August of this year after only 3 years of marriage. He became involved with a woman who was not quite separated herself, her husband killed my husband. I had alot of anger and rage and being pregnant emotionally did not help. These feelings had no where to go but to stay inside, until recently I've met someone who allows me to greive and show all of the emotions that I've wanted to show for the last two months. At the same time this person comforts me, and enjoys my children and he wants to be with me. Its hard to except this because even though we were separated, I still loved my husband and I believed he still loved me too, however, we never got the chance to see if we could work it out. This new relationship gives me peace. Isn't that all that matters?