Posted by Morgan on September 17, 2001 at 15:12:27:
In Reply to: Please Help! posted by Vixon on September 17, 2001 at 10:19:10:
Your feelings of fear are normal, but this guy already likes the real you that you have been showing him for the last year. If after all of your dialogues and all of your bonding, he rejects you because his image of you doesn't match the reality, then truly he is not the one for you.
I fear that you have set so much importance on this meeting - that it will make or break your life. Try and look at it as an opportunity to connect with someone new. It doesn't HAVE to lead to a happily ever after.
After our uterus, the heart is the strongest muscle in the body - it can take pleny of lickings and keep on ticking. Don't look at this meeting as a do or die. Chemistry in person is very different than online and YOU may find yourself disappointed in the reality of him. Then what? He's not perfect and neither are you. Start from there and you're on the right path.