Posted by Debbie on August 18, 2001 at 09:54:21:
In Reply to: Just Lost My Husband posted by Lucy on August 06, 2001 at 19:36:19:
I am sorry for the loss of your husband. I have been trying to cope with the loss of my husband since May 9,2001. I have good and bad days. The worst time is the night and the weekends. We did not have any childern either, together. I do have to step sons 27 and 29 who have been disconnected from me since their dad died. I feel very lonely without my husband, he was my bestfriend and soulmate. I have been working alot trying to lose myself in work. We were married for 7 years but dated for 5 years. I feel that I was very lucky to have such a great man for the time I had him. I was the most important thing to him he always thought of me first. My family and friends and coworkers have been a great support, His mom and sisters and his sons have not been really supportive. I keep calling trying to keep the connection, but I feel more lonley when I am with his mom and sisters. I do miss the boys, since I have been part of their lives for eleven years. Any suggustions how to handle this time of my life. I have not gone to support groups yet. I dont know if I am ready for that yet. Thank you for listening.
Debbie