Posted by Arlene Carlson on April 28, 2001 at 20:47:32:
In Reply to: tempered posted by David on March 11, 2001 at 19:02:53:
Dear David, Ilove how you put your true pain into words. I too lost my husband. Married 19 years. I am trying to free myself from my loss from my continuing pain.. I thought before I could go on I need to be me. I need to hear myself. I didnt want to think I need to find a guy to fill the void but I need to find out more about myself now. This is my time. Before we made all the decisions together. We leaned on each other for everything. Now I must be strong and make those decisions on my own I must learn to be independent. There are alot of us who know how you feel. Sometimes it would be nicce for some one to take our hand and lead us for awhile and get off a sudden rollercoaster. Please write when you get time. arlene