Posted by arlene on December 14, 2000 at 23:08:05:
In Reply to: When do you get better? posted by Connie on April 08, 2000 at 21:49:20:
Connie,
I do not know when we will feel better. Our family has alway been a family who dealt with what life as it came. You did not cry or fall apart you did what needed to be done. In fact when I start to cry my kids tell me to stop wimping out. But how can I, when I lost the only person who made me feel whole and secure. It has only be 6 months since I lost my husband but everyone thinks I am suppose to be getting on with ife. The only thing that keeps me going is the kids. If nothing else I owe it to my husband to provide for them the way he would have. To teach them to accept people for what they are not were they come from or what they look like. They need to know that family is the most important thing it life.
Believe me, I know it is not easy. Just keep trying.
Arlene