Posted by Christine on June 13, 2000 at 05:17:58:
In Reply to: Are Husband and Wifes souls reunited after death ? posted by Sue M on January 18, 19100 at 00:07:45:
Wow, I've thought about the same thing. I have many things in common with your loss. My finace died the day before your husband, on Sept. 18, 1999, at the age of 43. He died of Lung Cancer. We were both in love back in 1993, we drifted apart because of relationships that we were both in and needed to cut ties. We got together again in 1997, and in Feb. 1998, he asked me to marry him. I constantly pinched myself to feel if this was real. I longed for him for all of those years we were apart. He was the love of my life, my soul mate in everyway. In June of 1998, he was diagnosed with Lung Cancer, I was devistated beyond belief. How could this be. I did everything I could to keep him happy and healthy, through his chemo and radation treatments. He bounced back, gained over 4o pounds and looked great for a while, the tumors shrunk 95%. We both held on to hope. We planed a life together and hoped to meet our dreams and goals. This was all short lived. A CAT scan showed that the cancer was back, and the tumors were larger than before. They gave him 3 to 4 months to live, and said that there were no further treatments available. He slowly died, as he lost weight. He breathing became worse and he look as if he were 95 years old. He would cry because he did not want to leave me behind in pain. He said to me just remember, who ever goes first, the other will be waiting for them. I hope as you do that someday we will be reunited as a couple. Sex means nothing, I just want him back to share my heart with. I feel we will see our loved ones again. This is not all that God created for us, there has to be more.