Re: Needing some help

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Posted by andrew on December 23, 2001 at 13:45:59:

In Reply to: Needing some help posted by Kimberly on December 12, 2001 at 21:32:38:

I can see what you are going through i lost my wife of 6 years in a tragic accident early this month and christmas day will be 3 weeks since she died.I also am not looking foreward to it this year but i have to make the best of it for my 2 children.This will not be easy for me or any of us in the same position but i have to remember what my Linda always said to me.That was that if anything did ever happen to her to remember that she will always be with me in my heart and my memories and she would not want me to be sad for my loss but to be happy for the time that we had together and the love we shared for the time we had.Your husband would not want you to live your life greiving for him as you are doing but to go and get on with your life.Just remember that there are other people out there who are going through the same as you are who are willing to talk to you and support you.I know it is hard to talk about the one you have lost but the more you talk about them the easier it is to come to terms with your loss so if you do want to talk e.mail me and we can talk to each other and we will both know what the other is going through.My wife was my life but she is now with god and looking over me and i am sure that your husband is looking over you as well so take comfort in knowing that he is always with you i am 33 years old as was my wife.I will also be visiting my wifes grave on christmas day to wish her a merry christmas and i am sure that she will be with me on christmas day but then i will go back to my family and make the best of a bad year i am hear to talk if you need someone who understands.What country are you in i am in the UK so our time zones could be different but i check my mail every day

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