Posted by Bud on August 26, 2001 at 06:47:24:
In Reply to: Just lost my husband. posted by Nadine P. on July 24, 2001 at 16:45:41:
Dear Ndine,
I am very sorry to hear of your loss. Like you, I lost my best friend on Nov. 13 1997. She was 7 months pregnant when she had a brain anurism. She was only 27 years old. I am left to raise our son.
The pain and confusion you are feeling will gradually lessen. It will, however, never completely dissapear.
My wife once asked me what LOVE meant to me. I told her that love means careing more for another than you do yourself. I would have given my life for her. As I watched her lying in the hospital I wanted so much to trade places with her. I now am glad she went before me. I would never have wanted her to experience the pain and sadness I have endured. She and your husband will no longer suffer.
Please stay strong. Let your friends and family help. We are all stronger than we think. The postings on this web sight are proof.
Bud