Posted by Tanya on August 10, 2001 at 20:18:57:
In Reply to: stuff I am thinking posted by Ted Cottrell on August 03, 2001 at 14:24:40:
Ted,
It has been awhile since I revisited this page. My husband died a little over two years ago.
I remember the emptiness and sorrow I felt...that I still feel...and how much I wanted someone to help me take that pain away. To make me feel whole again. I sought the companionship of another man in hopes that it might make me feel better, only to find that it left me feeling worse.
There is no bandaid to make us feel better.
Time, as cruel and long as it can be at times, does help somewhat. But to heal the wounds that death leaves upon us is a very personal journey. It is definitely easier with the help of others that can identify with what you are going through and I would be happy to help you in any way that I can.
If you would like to talk, please email me.
Tanya