Posted by Tiff on July 15, 2001 at 20:51:59:
In Reply to: widowed at age 35 posted by Lori on July 14, 2001 at 01:58:56:
You can still talk to you husband. Just because he is not there in person he is still there in sperit. Everybody always tells me that God writes down in the book of life when you are going to die and there is nothing you can do to change it. About 5 years ago I was dating soneone who I was to marry but like you said good had other plans and he took him away from me. I felt like I couldn't go on, but I did. Nothing will ever take away the pain. But you will always have the memories and in those he is still alive. Don't forget what I said he is always there and you can always talk to him. My uncle just lost his wife of 55 years to cancer and he says that she will always be with him because he will always carry her in his heart. I am sorry for your lost and I know that it hurts and I know that pain will never go away but it will ease after a while.