Posted by Jim Williams on March 08, 2001 at 21:00:02:
In Reply to: loss of a husband posted by Dreama on December 22, 2000 at 17:53:08:
Your husband would not wish death for you and so you must honor his wish. The loneliness is always there but life goes on and there is no reason that you should not live that life. My wife and I talked often about what we would do if one or the other of us died and we decided that we would go on. My wife died on 1/11/01 and left me with 4 children but I will go on without her because that was her wish. Follow your deceased spouse's wishes and get on with it. Don't forget the past or shut it out but build a new bountiful life on it!