Posted by Sylvia L. on January 06, 2001 at 23:03:32:
In Reply to: Losing my wife posted by John on January 04, 2001 at 19:40:27:
John,
I am so sorry for your loss all of us here have lost a husband or wife and we understand what your going through.I don't think anything I say can make the pain of losing your wife any easier but, I will say no one can ever take away the love that she had for you and I think she left you with a little part of her your new baby, which i am sure she loved very much and that baby will need you more then ever.My husband died a year ago this thanksgiving and I hate to say it but it doesn't get any easier as the days go by but I have our three beautiful children and I know I have to go on for them.I still cry alot but not because he passed away because I know he's in a better place but I cry because I miss his laugh and the way his hand felt. I guess I'll never undestand way God decided to take him from me but I know one thing I was loved by him and he never let me forget that and that's one thing no one can ever take from me.It's O.K. to cry and miss her as much as you want that's your right just know you were loved by her .God Bless you John and your new baby.
Sylvia L.